Wednesday, March 3, 2010

For months now, I have grumbled often tearfully almost like a regular adult about how much I have loved and then eventually lost, but I have ceased to mention, at times intentionally, what I had attained when I did love… and to be honest it indeed was a lot. Love as we all know is a weird emotion, for while it lasts it shadows your entity, your being and when it leaves, it leaves you not with the memories of sweetness but with the bitterness of how it could not last you for a lifetime. We are greedy, greedy for more; we humans feel as if we are naturally entitled to everything that is beautiful that is joyous, and when we grieve, we do it with such a passion that literally nullifies everything that had been good. Therefore, we mourn, mourn and mourn until something else catches our whim or better still, when somebody else replaces our needs. Selfishness comes to us as naturally as eating or shitting does. So let me for once refrain from being such a hypocrite and of course before I realize that I am being stupid mention how much I did enjoy being in love and put aside the fact that things did not quite work out between us as I thought they would, and really say aloud that yes I had been in love and no I don’t think it is such a crime to fall in it again. And to the rest of the lot who feel otherwise, well, what can I say I feel sorry for you I really do, because love is not a bad thing for it does not change you, it never does instead it changes the way you look at things and that makes all the difference in the world. So cheers to all who have loved and lost, for before losing you had been in for a joy ride and wait till you get yourself another ticket to Disneyland.


  1. HA!
    DAMN right, girl!!!!
    I love this...for all its honesty, its optimism, and most of all, for how very TRUE it is.

  2. New Testament:"So faith,hope and love endure. These are the great three,and the greatest of them is love"
    oh! how i longed 4 dis sun to srike out d chaos and drive away d darkness...d wounds bled d despair s fled...welcome bak anu! :) Guided by Venus continue 2 sail afar and kiss new shores.ur lines are reminiscent of Tennyson's and 'In Memoriam' of lord Tennyson - "I hold it true, whate'er befall;/I feel it, when I sorrow most;/'Tis better to have loved and lost/Than never to have loved at all"

  3. thanks 4 d sanguinity.hav been waitin 4 dis long and i am... i am happy! :) :) VERY

  4. bhalobasa soto judhdeo jeta jai na
    bhalobasa kirti sorbonasa

  5. wow ananya beautifully put..missed your posts.. glad to see you back here..i so agree with you here >:D<

  6. @ pria babe i shud thank u for being there and for helpin me see thru this
    @ zee babe u hav no clu wat u mean to me and how much u hav helped me be me.... as i always say u complete me love
    @ meshon na go bhalobasha shorbonasha akebarei na bhalobasha notuner barta
    @ ani hey thanks dear... am glad to be back too and glad u liked it :)

  7. that was very brave of you.....Im proud of you...
    "Run, rabbit run.
    Dig that hole, forget the sun,
    And when at last the work is done
    Don't sit down it's time to dig another one."
    thats what life and love is all about....

  8. Cheers, ananya.but tickets counter shows closed @ this middle Journey of life.

  9. hey ananya..tht was really nice!!!
    rock on with another new life!

  10. ananya chatterjeeMarch 9, 2010 at 12:19 PM

    ya moving on at tyms can b fun

  11. this is one of those rare pieces full of straightforward honest expressions...

    love.. lose.. love again... it aint so bad... as long as u acknowledge the bliss when its there.

  12. it took me arnd 20 lines to get thr and boom only 2 lines for ya............. thnku

  13. Dear Ananya,
    Good Afternoon!
    You have a lovely name!There is a udding film actress in Malayalam by this name.:)
    Love doe not happen often in ife.It is not necessary that it should work out between all souls.The way we desire,love des not reach us!
    Hope and pray You rreach the right kind of LOVE.
    Let go and get occupied.
    Life is always beautiful with or with out Mr.Right.
    Wishing you a onderful day ahead,